It is so hard for parents to watch their children struggle with difficulties and challenges. But when your child is now an adult, the pain and helplessness can be even more devastating.
Consider the butterfly effect, also known as the Chaos theory: that a single occurrence, no matter how small, can change the course of the universe forever. Chaos, or the science of surprises, teaches us to expect the unexpected. This effect suggests that a hurricane in China can be caused by a butterfly flapping its wings in New Mexico. It may take a long time, but the connection is real.
The connections between a parent and child carry a much greater immediacy and impact than that of a butterfly in New Mexico and a hurricane in China – but the underlying principal is the same. If one element (the parent) makes a change in themselves, this can have a profound and unexpected influence on the child. If a parent addresses something that has been quietly sabotaging their own greater fulfillment, this may help their own child loosen whatever bonds have been holding them back.
Imagine that our children’s deepest message and desire for us is to live more freely.
If we want to truly help our children of any age, exploring and cleaning up even one old story, habit or pattern in the basement of our beings will have a profound effect on them. If we are unknowingly carrying old unresolved pain or patterns of belief, our children will unconsciously feel it.
How can they move forward, when we are somewhere stuck?
If you have a child of any age who is immersed in long-term struggles, you may already have invested time and money trying to help them. But if they are still repeating the same patterns of illness, behavior or situation, then perhaps something totally different is needed to break the stalemate.
Be the Change You Wish to See – For Yourself and For Your Child
Call now and book your zero-obligation introductory session that will help you to truly help your child – no matter their age. This session will:
Help you clarify the challenges your child is dealing with;
Help you understand more clearly how their challenges are affecting you;
Uncover hidden attitudes/beliefs that may be sabotaging your ability to support, empower and appreciate your child;
Embark on a plan of action that will help your child and nurture a more loving, harmonious relationship between you both;
bring greater insight, awareness and empowerment to your own life’s journey;
Inspire a more supportive and appreciative environment for all members of the family.
You will leave the session with a new understanding and inspiration. You and your child are powerfully connected! This session will help clarify the opportunities for growth and happiness this relationship is calling forth for you both, Right Now!
Call or email to book your introductory appointment today: 604-671-7863 or druryperry@shaw.ca
Trust that you and your child are here for a reason. Make the most of this precious relationship!
